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hey guys,

i am meeting /attracting alot more girls thru clubs/bars/groups and online but had question. When you are meeting these girls out... do you meet for a drink/dinner? If you are meeting a girl out for a drink or dinner... do you pay? or would you just say we're going dutch? didnt sound like spike had to pay alot for dinner or drinks when meeting girls... so wanted to see. Swappa - have you had to do this? do you pay for drinks/dinner when meeting girls... i wud think if i am meeting someone out then we probably go dutch... if i am picking up a girl at her place that is more like a date and then i wud probably pay... wanted your opinion and others... thanks

Mike

Mike... remember, you are not going out on dates, so remove that idea from your mind. Instead, you are meeting up with a girl to do something, just like you might meet up with a buddy, or something like that.

When I'd meet a girl for "fun" at my place or her place, nobody would pay. Sometimes I'd go out with a girl to dance, or go for a motorcycle ride or something like that... I might buy her an ice cream if we're out during the day. I would typically only go for dinner with a girl if we already had "fun" together. Typically when first meeting a girl, it's probably best for each person to pay for their drink or whatever, but it's not that big a deal... if you make it a big deal (by hesitating for instance) when you're out with a girl, that can ruin things due to lack of confidence in the situation... so the key is to be confident in any situation. The bigger key is to have a connection with the girl and nothing else matters. Hope this helps.