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Abel91
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Post finally!
on: November 17, 19:35

Hey guys,

I havn't posted in a while because I've been working on several things and man I'm glad I did. I finally quit porn! Yep it's been almost two months and now I don't even feel like watching it. I've gone for periods of time without doing porn before but but I had strong urges, now they're gone. I used to not be able to go a day without at least watching it :">

Thank you everyone who has helped me with this, even if it wasn't directly, a lot of your posts inspired me.

For those still struggling with this and intrested in learning how I did it I can help you out.. believe me I've tried everything out there, and I know what works, I guess willpower wasn't enough for my case.

Oh and as far as results, I've had women show me more intrest including staring at my crotch, "accidentally" touch me or bump up against me, stare at me, etc. The point is I can totally tell the diffirence, Spike and Swappa were right about sexual energy, it's crucial to your success, and not just with women.

But the best thing is I feel better about myself and feel more optimistic about the future.

I hope everyone's doing great,

-Abel
Spike
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Post Re: finally!
on: November 17, 21:57

That's awesome Abel! How did you manage to do it?
DmD
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Post Re: finally!
on: November 18, 08:51

Yeah, man, please share, I keep fuckin' up at it. 3, 3.5 straight weeks without jackin off to porn then I fuck everything up,
Abel91
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Post Re: finally!
on: November 18, 17:18

Thanks Spike! and yeah DmD I know what you mean I've been there, it sucks.

Well there is two parts to what I did:

The first part MR.O helped me find, because he said it's very important to not beat yourself up, but this is a lot easier said than done. So I looked around and came across the Sedona Method, which is basically a way to release or let go negative emotions... and it did just that. With it I managed to release all the shame and guilt I had from doing porn because I let go of wanting to control and wanting approval. So I got to the point where I didn't feel bad about it anymore so the habit just fell away... I coudn't believe it was that easy!

But the urges still came up once in a while, so this is the second part; natural grounding.
Which has been known to cure men from porn addiction, and that was the case for me too. After a few days of doing it the urges went away, also I don't put women on a pedestal as much anymore(I still have a bit of work to do), and I feel a lot less needy.

So there you go that's what worked for me, so if your struggling with this and are open to new things give it a try.
swappa
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Post Re: finally!
on: November 18, 18:48

Lol funny you mentioned it, I just spoke to rion couple of weeks ago regarding the whole porno thing..
DmD
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Post Re: finally!
on: November 20, 08:23

Thanks for the tips man.
MR O
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Post Re: finally!
on: November 20, 10:06

Yeh nice work abel ive been off porn and masturbation for months now lost count haha But its interesting because when you switch up your entire lifestyle it wont even cross your mind. My old lifestyle was a breeding ground for porn and masturbation...i.e spending way too much time on tv, internet, beating myself up and frustration, too much time at home.

Now everythings opposite in fact i hate staying in house Im only in house for breakfast and sleep. You just have replace old habits with new habits.:)

Most importantly remember feeling frustration about not being able to give up porn/ masturbation will attract more frustration on it. You must not beat yourself up and be okay with it.
Kkr
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Post Re: finally!
on: November 21, 08:26

Respect Abel! Also guys I myself tried few times the release technique, sedona method but it seems too hard. I bring up these negative emotions so I can let them go but fail to do so and then feel bad afterwards. I can't understand how it is done.

Abel91
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Post Re: finally!
on: November 23, 13:08

That's a great point mr.o, it's important that your environment is in alignment with your goals. And yeah I stopped watching tv too, or anything that doesn't add value to my life.

@Kkr maybe your'e not doing it right? The way I do it, I don't analyze anything when I ask myself the releasing questions. If you want you can buy the book(it's really cheap at amazon), it explains it better there. I just read the first couple chapters and the part about habits and that's all I needed. Also you may not be in touch enough with your emotions, sometimes just allowing yourself to feel an emotion is enough to dissolve it,

hope this helps
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