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badboyls
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Posts: 8
Post good looking and competition
on: January 27, 08:39

ive been doing affirmations for looks...like telling myself im good looking,im sexy...etc but it contradicts by saying no models r good looking...to be sexy u hv to have a gd looking face and body...how to get over this...

when ur standing next to gd looking guys hw cn one not be insecure esp when all the girls are looking at him and saying "wow he's hot" and so on.at that time i feel like shit and feel like i hv no hope to become a sexy mofo.

@spike is there anyway to dissipiate resistance while doing affirmations?

sometimes i feel there is competition though i know its BS.

but im trying my level best to better myself.
im wrking out regularly
try to overcome my fears
doing affirmations etc...

spike and swappa could u pls tell me what an attractive man is,cause inmy head it always comes as a gd looking guy.
swappa
Pro
Posts: 280
Post Re: good looking and competition
on: January 27, 18:59

Hey Dude,

Stop thinking soo negative. You need to learn how to be happy before you get a lady, it's plain and simple. Start doing some hobbies, trust that you will become great. If you don't believe you will be great then no one will. Girls wont make you happy stop trying to base your happiness on external circumstances. If you base your happiness on external circumstances you will never be happy. When you feel like shit go watch a movie stop putting soo much preassure on yourself,

An attractive man is someone who is very confident, doesn't care if he gets the girls or not , he takes great care of himself. He is very much focused on his goals and aspirations.

Inner Happiness + Take care of yourself + Confident mindset+ having goals = Attractive man

It's natural for you in the beginning to think very negative since you been programmed to think like a unattractive man for soo long, keep doing the affirmations, keep doing things that make you happy and keep taking care of yourself eventually your reality has to change since what you put in you get out, Take my word for it. After an year you will probadly laugh and say to yourself " attracting woman is this easy and I used to worry about it" lol .

Good questions

Take care

Swappa

Abel91
Advanced
Posts: 86
Post Re: good looking and competition
on: January 28, 12:39

Great response Swappa, I agree with it %100. I used to be fucking depressed and misreble when I was 17, then I found out about Cory/affirmations and a few other things, like eating healthy working out, as well as a cool hobby, very simple stuff but, I was happy, and guess what? As a result I got a very nice girl friend when I just turned 18, haha;) I didn't even try,,
JBarros
Pro
Posts: 146
Post Re: good looking and competition
on: January 30, 03:07

Competion yes there is and if you have friends that may be one of the reasons why you will lose them.

Now if other guys that aren't your friend compete you?

Yeah they probably do but I just don't notice it. In my belief there isn't any competion because I just don't think about it :)

You still think that women think as a guy and that's wrong. I guarantee you 100% that women don't see stuff like we do. Women are far more attracted to your personality and the way you present yourself.

Swappa said it all. Just relax man, don't pressure yourself and take your time. Just know that what women consider sexy is far different then what we do. In other words you just need to build those attributes to become a sexymotherfucker but like everything it takes time and effort. Just be patient.

I actually think you should do affirmations focusing on being sexy and an attractive man instead on your physical attributes.
Spike
Administrator
Posts: 444
Post Re: good looking and competition
on: January 30, 07:43

Guys who try to compete with other guys are 'shooting themselves in the foot.' Once you figure this stuff out, there is no competition. It's crazy how easy it is.

A very important part is being comfortable with your sexuality.
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