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Hey Dude ,

From reading your post it seems you are putting way too much pressure on yourself which is normal when you start out on this journey.

To answer your questions:

1) A person with "it" is someone who is sexually confident and has his shit together. Basically a very high valued man that woman are naturally drawn to. A person with "it" is very confident and knows without a doubt in his mind he can get any girl he desires.

2) This is very huge topic. To have a connection with woman you need to be internally happy and very confident, there can't be even a hint of doubt or neediness , these two things make it impossible for you to connect with woman. So to answer your question , to have connection with woman affirmations is not enough, you need to internally happy and clear ( free from limiting beliefs)

3) The way to getting rid of limiting beliefs is through repetition , you have to keep doing affirmations then your mind will naturally accept the belief you are affirming ( takes about 60 to 90 days to accept a new belief into the subconscious mind)

4) To let get go of neediness you need to have a life along with having goals and working on them. Remember wanting woman won't get you woman, you need to be the man woman wants, Woman don't like that guys that focus on them , Woman like guys that have their own life and focus on themselves , Woman like guys that are busy improving themselves. Start setting some goals and do everything you can achieve your goals then neediness will naturally dissipate , maybe in your case you want to get good grades in school ( just a suggestion relating to your issue).

5) When you are focusing on yourself you are working towards your goals and improving yourself to become best person you can be. Basically you need a life outside woman to become great with woman. When you saying “woman love me " it's basically programming your mind to accept that belief. You beliefs create your reality. Your belief sends out vibration to the universe which manifests the very thing you are affirming. There is a lot of books on the law of attractions such as : beyond positive thinking , ask and receive, the attractor factor.etc , I recommend you check them out.

Looks do matter, but not in the way you think it matters. Woman like guys who takes care of themselves. No , the type of looks I am talking is not having a six pack or being tall, it's the type of looks that shows a woman you groom well, your clean, good hygiene, good dresser.etc. The reason why you are seeing only good looking guys with girls is because your mind is fixated on the belief "only good looking guys get girls" which brings more evidence to your reality. You need to change your belief system through affirmations.
Saying you don’t have money is an excuse; you can get a part time job to acquire the things you desire. Start doing affirmations on getting more money.
Hope this helps !

Swappa