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john234
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Post Somewhat success
on: August 24, 15:52

Here is somewhat of a success... I went out last night by myself and had a great time. First I was talking to the bouncer for a few minutes... then I walked over and started a conversation with a man at the bar... we spoke a little .. then these 2 hot asian girls stopped by... the guy was very shy and didnt say a word but I asked them about what they were drinking... and she had told me it was sake they were drinking. Didn't know that sake had alcohol so I learned something... then I asked her name and then gave her mine and the girl introduced herself to the guy I was talking to ... the girl's friend then came by and introduced herself to the guy i was talking to then she did to me... her name was huggy... so I said.. oh "hug me"... so I acted like she said "hug me" instead of her name... i smiled and gave her a hug and she willingly accepted so it was very good... she then introduced me an asian friend of hers.. dont think it was a boyfriend but oh well never know... anyway talked a bit then they went off... I went to talking back to the other guy then 2 guys were at the bar.. looked cool so I started talking to them... There was a somewhat cute girl walking around and checking me out... then she was checking others out... at the very end of the night she stood right next to me but because of some bs I thought she might be wanting to speak to one of my buddies which showed up so I never said anything... looking back i bet something could have happened but i feel good with the way the night went socially...

Spike
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Post Re: Somewhat success
on: August 26, 21:46

Hey John, yes, that is a great success story.

At the end though, it seems that you didn't do your manly duty so you disappointed the girl as well as yourself.

Here's the 'analysis.' The girl was attracted to you. You guys flirted, etc. She then positioned herself next to you (that was her move). She was then waiting for you to make your move, but you didn't because you were in your head instead of being in the moment - probably lack of confidence/experience, what ever... but that's okay because now you know for next time.

Do your affirmations: "when a cute girl positions herself next to me I flirt and make the next move." You need to do your affirmations so that you're in the moment next time this happens. Yes, doing the manly thing takes some balls (i.e., self-confidence)... and after you know she's attracted to you, she will want you to take that move. Before speaking to her, a good thing is to make some eye contact to feel that she wants you... then if the vibe is "on," you can suggest that she and you hang out together.

Overall, well done... you're now at the verge of the next level. Hope this helps.

Spike

john234
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Posts: 132
Post Re: Somewhat success
on: August 29, 09:03

Thanks spike this certainly does... Wanted your input on something though... 2 questions

1) When you are on the dance floor or lets just say a place where women are dancing... I had 2 women start dancing right by me... just in front of me... and I do know how to dance and can dance w/o drinking... hahaha... is there where I could 'feel' out the situation by kinda of dancing with them? I was just observing and watching and dancing a little but not to the point where people would seem I was actually dancing/grinding with them... what is your thought on this situation?

2) also, i have a good buddy who is a door man at a pretty cool club... he is chubby but does have a way with women... he is pretty smooth and feely and from what i hear does okay with them... he is very friendly with them and knows how to escalate; he looks like a ladies man but he is a bit overweight but a good face... he has been giving pointers about stuff and he was telling me to grow out a beard and then shave it off and keep a goatee... he says he thinks with my facial features that I look better with goatee... but keep in mind my 9.5 picture rating has be supporting stubble look which looks very good on me hence the high rating on hot or not... this guy is trying to be helpful but he was telling me this one girl was "out of my league" which i immediately disagreed and told him ' i can get any girl i want' which I think I can becuase very attractive women have found me attractive... also I just figured something out about this club/bar which I don't do that great in... My affirmations state "women I like"... and this club is known for a lot of women that arent really attractive... also its known for a lot younger girls/guys but i think the reason I do not have a good time or do not do well is because I am not attracted to alot of the girls in this club... anyway.. just wanted your input... also swappa or anyone else who cares to comment :) thanks

Spike
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Posts: 444
Post Re: Somewhat success
on: August 29, 18:39

If an ugly girl can find you attractive, a hot girl can find you equally attractive. The girl's hotness is not a factor. Hence, I don't believe in the notion of a girl being "out of a guy's league."

john234
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Post Re: Somewhat success
on: August 29, 22:56

what about question number 1 about dancing.. since you learned to dance?

Spike
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Posts: 444
Post Re: Somewhat success
on: August 29, 23:09

Question 1 didn't really resonate with me. I don't need to dance with a girl to know she wants me. Come to think of it, dancing is more about having fun than it is for attracting girls. If you enjoy dancing, they you're in a situation where you're having fun with girls, hence, more opportunity for girls to want you.

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