Guys so much crazy shit has happened and still happening that I cant write it out now . But let me make something very clear. The world is truly your playground and you truly can live a life without limits. Right now I can do, say and have whatever the fuck I want....and I truly believe that. Everything Cory teaches, Spike or very successful people is all based on one thing....you are 100% responsible for everything in your life.. PERIOD. So whatever situation your in now ITS YOUR FAULT, but dont be disheartened because with great responsibility comes great power. And we all have the power to create the reality we desire .
You know what that means: it means the world takes cues from you. Its all inside out. If you believe yourself as a sexy man...guess what everyone will believe that. If you feel and think frustrating thoughts...guess what you will manifest more frustration into your life. People call this law of attraction....the name doesnt matter the fact of the matter is whatever you spend your time feeling and thinking will manifest more of it. THATS IT GUYS!
Its either You have, being and doing or you are wanting, not being and not doing Thats it! THERE IS NO BECOMING! you have to be very careful with this concept because if you keep feeling like your becoming sexy,confident etc. guess what you will continue to manifest more becoming feelings.
Through using the approach below I have been manifesting the things I desire into my life effortlessly.
STEP 1: get 100% clear on what you want( truly look beyond your current reality)...think really big
STEP 2- Rewrite what you want but In the form of having it right now. you guys know how affirmations work im not going to go into it now. Another very effective exercise is writing out your perfect average day. The clearer you are on what you want to more likely you get it.
STEP 3- You must begin to establish the feeling like you have it right now. This is extremely crucial. how do you do this: you can do standard written, mirror and visualisation affirmations i.e I am the prize etc..you can create your own mind movie, visualize your perfect day , record and listen to yourself etc. Every man is different so experiment and find what works for you. personally most effective for me is affirming in form of a story that always happens to me. YOU MUST BE ABLE TO SEE(VISUALISE) AND FEEL IT.
STEP 4- Get out and put yourself in alignment with what you want i.e if you want more young women ...then go and hang out in places with young women etc. However, the more you establish the feeling of having it right now so clearly and so real...you will naturally feel urge to go out and take action in particular situations to attract that.
STEP 5- LET GOOOOOOOOOO! this is where a lot of guys get stuck...this is
distinguishes those living the life they desire versus those who dont.
WANTING= LACK OF
HAVING= NOT LACKING
If you keep in wanting state you are continually pushing away from you what you desire. You must be 100% clear on what you want and just spend as much time as you can in having state.
you have to be able to do the steps above in a playful carefree manner. HOW AND WHEN it manifests is really none of your fucking business. This is when the core of cory and spikes teaching come into play. We all came into this from a scarcity, wanting , lack of mentality ...now you have to learn to let go of that want and feel like you have it right now...its asking a lot. Ultimately, to some extent you believe whatever you want XYZ will bring you happiness...subconsciously you feel you need it to complete you (society mindset bullshit ). Thats why you have to start taking great care, begin to live a life everyday you love like no tomorrow , develop an unconditional love for yourself and realise you are completely happy, grateful and content right now.
When you begin to do this you realise that you dont need all these things society has pressured you to want, you love your life and yourself just the way it and are happy right now you dont need anything. REMEMBER : when you were a child you were carefree about life. THIS IS WHEN EVERYTHING YOU WANT WILL BEGIN TO MANIFEST IN ABUNDANCE. DO YOU NOW UNDERSTAND WHY WHEN YOU LET GO OF WANTING WOMEN AND FOCUS ON YOURSELF WOMEN WILL COME INTO YOUR LIFE EFFORTLESSLY.
Heres the thing guys and Im going to get very honest: all most all questions on this forum ( myself included in past) especially regarding women....look at the question carefully ...theres one thing that stands out WE CARE TOO MUCH. letting go and really not giving a fuck is not only the sexiest quality on earth ...but it means you can live a life of freedom, be yourself and it is the most powerful position to be in any situation. If your carefree you can never lose EVER! and like I said before we were born carefree( we allowed society to instilL limiting beliefs and needs into us).
Let me ask you a question will you honestly be able to love your life and yourself if you didnt get eye contact from women, no women found you attractive, no women came into your life etc.??? If the answer is no you have to do everything you can to make it true for you
so how did I learn to let go?
I have been doing all my affirmations and establishing the feeling of having on a CONSISTENT BASIS!!. I have been pushing and testing the boundaries consistently, my comfort zone, my beliefs, my reality, putting myself in situations where people will judge me, taking actions to always improve my self, my life etc. You have to be 100% honest with yourself..like cory says you must get to the point where you say enough is enough...you must get to the point where you stop caring and giving a fuck AND TAKE 100% RESPONSIBILITY OF YOUR LIFE. you cant pretend to be carefree because thats just pretending to be carefree.
look at a convo on text below I had with a really cute blonde today :
HER: Hey
ME: sup
HER:When you going back to location XYZ
ME: Saturday
HER: why you stressy?
ME: Nah Im chilled
HER: Alright hey im busy saturday but you can come to mine next time you go there
ME: kl
HER: or not then? Ill come down if you want to see me
ME: Hey look itll be nice to see you but if cnt its kl
HER: Well id like to see you if you let me stay over at your room though
ME:kl just let me know when you want to come
HER:3 weeks
ME: aite but i might be skydiving tell me day your coming
HER:
THATS IT!look you want more women in your life..realise your the fucking PRIZE right now and you dont need women in your life to make you happy. Let go of wanting women, be carefree and live for you. Convo above im not becoming a carefree guy, im not trying to be carefree, I AM A CAREFREE GUY AND REALLY DONT GIVE A FUCK .if she doesnt come to my room I dont care life goes on . Guys I dont care because I am fed up of caring. People are incredibly attracted to a person who is carefree its soo sexy. Because your not living a life of wanting and trying to get anything your extremely relaxed , people pick up on this vibe and they begin to give you what you want. YOU ARE GOLD IN THE EYES OF WOMEN! and guys respect you and think you re the coolest person.
For those of you not beginning to manifest the things you desire and generally not heading in the direction you want. Guess what: I dont feel sorry for you...because your not being 100% honest with yourself. Deep down inside you know your not doing and pushing yourself enough....half ass effort half ass result PERIOD!
Finally BE GRATEFUL FOR BOTH WHAT YOU HAVE RIGHT NOW AND THE THINGs YOURE FEELING YOU HAVE everyday. Remember if you spend your time feeling positive, having , love, happy and gratitude more situations will occur that will generate more of those feelings.
Life was meant to be easy , simple and abundant in all ways. Get out of your way, stop making excuses and take full responsibility for your life. And remember you can only have what your willing to give up.
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