Before I became a member of this forum I was also a member of Cory's new forum. This is a success story of myself I posted today on it:
Cory mentioned in the last mentoring lesson that progress will most likely be gradual. It is very true.Almost like your standing on an escalator or more like 1 step back and 2 steps forward. So don't be disheartened when things are looking rough its a sign that things will get even better.
On that note Im going to provide my progress of recent to hopefully inspire some of you. I wont write a blown out success story until I get to the point that I can give a well rounded view on everything. So here we go:
Ive spent the past weeks making very practical changes to my life. Because now i focus almost 100% of my effort and mind into being best man I can be ...I spent many many hours on handling each area and have now made it into a habit.
What areas?
HEALTH- 1) Ive completely stopped eating unhealthy food and drinks...shopping for healthy food is the most frustrating thing as they are harder to find. On top of that ive been making other changes- better sleep, washing face before bed etc. I also stopped masturbation and porn- it really took something out of my spirit, willpower and subconsciously contributed to why I put women up on a pedestal. The more I focus on other improvements the easier it becomes.
Also ,Now I exercise everyday with variations of running, rowing, Yoga, football, code of natural exercises(exercises that help relax and loosen muscles) , push ups etc.--I find exercise really helps put you in a clearer, more confident and happier state of mind. Remember cory said do anything you can to put yourself in a good state of mind. 2) Grooming- ive developed a solid grooming routine to take care of body , I spent hours shopping for grooming kit and consistently implementing it. I found my sexy hair look and now Currently experimenting to find my sexy facial hair look:)
FASHION- this is a heavy topic...I feel its important in the beginning to really have your fashion on point most of the time! until you have really developed a rock solid confidence then you can veer off a little...but why not dress sexy most of the time:D I have spent a lot of money and time shopping over the years , experimenting etc. So before my fashion sense was about 8/10 i was on and off some days. The biggest turning point is when I had the balls to go up to attractive sales assistants and really stress to them that i want to look sexy and really good and they'd spend hours helping me find outfits and colors that look GREAT on me. Do not settle to look good ,you want to look GREAT and most importantly feel sexy. Which brings me to another point...you have to be very comfortable with people staring at you in awe and standing out in anyway especially dressing( a good way) than other men. If you have any issues just use affirmations consistently to counter what the issue is ,until its not a problem and then be grateful for it. On top of that ive mercilessly emptied my room of all clothes that do not look great on me, had further opinions from other girls and have developed my fashion sense up to 9/10 were almost everyday people are complementing me. ATTRACTIVE WOMEN PAY ATTENTION TO VERY SMALL DETAILS!
SOCIAL- 1) I joined salsa class, football session, yoga class , squash class, Art class : It took me almost 8 hours to find these!. Note- this is my own personal preference you might join different classes but the point is to get out there and get involved in stuff you enjoy doing. As a result ive been meeting a lot of people, improving my social skills and really just having a blast.
2) Recently I have been hanging around with good looking guys some of whom are naturals. These are guys that have women staring at them all day and women approaching them during day etc. for them its just normal. Anyways, as a result of spending time with these guys ive been invited and attended several clubbing events that are exclusively for models, on top of that I get free entry, free drinks Its a lot of fun. Before I would have been very intimidated to hang around these type of guys especially when they get a lot of attention from girls....now I DO NOT GIVE A FUCK.I believe I am also a natural and when I am surrounded by all these type of people I feel I DESERVE to be there and belong amongst ladies men. Understand the key is believing you deserve it.Because I believe that : I am very calm , confident and very unneedy around these guys and so they want to hang around me more and invite me over more and more. I believe as you evolve into a ladies man you will automatically gravitate towards other ladies men...the most benefit out of hanging with these guys is they show you live what is possible and their energy rubs off on you, like you subconsciously pick up on their sexy mannerisms. Once I saw one of my natural friends make out with two friends that were dancing with each other...he made out with one first...left her and made out with the other as the first one watched.haha The most fucked up part is they both had boyfriends who were in the same club that night!
Aside from that I still do all my affirmations daily and watch my mind movie...I enjoy doing them, they really help put my mind into a very good state, i find using music establishes the feeling a lot more. The key is to use affirmations to make it a hell lot more easy, effortless and in the moment to take action to those things you affirm. All the changes ive mentioned above were made by me very quickly, effortlessly , no resistance ...almost like a 100m race. WHY? its because of my consistency of using affirmations my subconscious is alignment with them. If you have any current issues or resistance..make an affirmation for that specific area or situation and be CONSISTENT with it, establish the feeling, have faith and in no time youll be doing it without thinking.
On top of that im developing well rounded knowledge: Ive been reading "How to Win Friends and Influence People - by Carnegie", there are other books I want to read. I will soon work more on my cooking knowledge, knowledge of womens interests i.e cosmopolitan etc. Im rekindling my talent of drawing and there are several other things I want to try: Boxing, skiing, surfing, travel etc. . Im also looking forward to sky diving already been bungee jumping in april.
If you guys havent noticed I have not mentioned anything about myself and women so far in this. The point I want to stress is It has nothing to do with women but little changes like those above to make yourself a more attractive and better man. The more I put effort and energy into making myself more attractive and better man....the more i feel i DESERVE to have any woman I want. You cant expect to deserve to attract a woman into your life that is confident, well groomed, dresses well , has a life etc.if you dont have those same qualities. Also, because i spend more time around good looking/ "hot" guys and girls im beginning to clearly see that its the attention to small details and the fact they take great care of themselves that makes them attractive THATS IT! I know this because Im doing the exact same thing. So now when I look at attractive women...The first thing I appreciate is her effort to look attractive i.e make up, nails , fashion etc..and then because I also feel I put a lot of energy and work into myself all these months even more so recently I just automatically feel I DESERVE her and give her that look like :what im not afraid to look at you a tiny bit.
When you feel you deserve something, when you feel like you put in a hell of a lot of work in , when you put yourself in very uncomfortable situations , when youve been shedding a lot of emotional baggage and been through a lot of frustration etc. You just get to the point where its like ...hey I really dont give a fuck! I walk around with a swag...im proud to be me and hold myself high, I KNOW IM SEXY, I KNOW IM THE FUCKING MAN, I KNOW ATTRACTIVE WOMEN WANT TO FUCK ME! I DONT THINK ABOUT IT BECAUSE IVE PUT WORK IN. Even if people dont give me eye contact or somedays girls dont seem attracted to me I REALLY DONT CARE! If somedays everyone is staring at me in awe and commenting on me I DONT CARE! Nothing bothers me anymore. When i talk to really attractive women i dont cater to them, i dont care if they dont like me etc.
As a result ive been attracting women to me like crazy...more so better quality women and women Im attracted to. At first my subconscious was shocked by it so i used affirmations and gratitude to affirm...now I am way more comfortable with it. When your subconscious is in alignment with what you want taking action is easy. Before I had issues taking action and talking to women who positioned near me etc. now it just happens without me thinking. Which brings me to an important point- INTUITION: Remember that gut feeling you had when you saw Cory and were like aahhh there is something about that guy, I trust him. Well ive been developing that inner intuition and voice, I am building trust and faith with it and follow more and more what it tells me to do. You will fuck up many times, but who cares it will get better...so next time your intuition tells you a girl you been looking at is attracted to you remember its a clear sign from "universe"/God etc. that its time for you to collect your rewards. Take whats yours:wink:.
For me now im at the point I FEEL like I have all the things I want RIGHT NOW! I FEEL I DESERVE IT ALL! If your still going through frustration then it means your not "clear" and you have some beliefs holding you back. Credit to Cory's recommendation of The Key by Joe vitale...really helped me to surface many of my most lethal limiting beliefs and tackle them head on. I feel no frustration no matter the outcome...even so that when I said to my friend casually.."damn im in the mood for a french girl" it manifested so quickly that by next day when I went to first salsa class I had intense sexual chemistry, made out, danced etc with an attractive girl that turned out to be french haha I Was taking her home but halfway I couldnt be bothered as she couldnt speak two words of english plus i was mad tired. Next day I met another attracive french girl8)
Like I said in the last inspirational story from another guy I posted : HARD WORK PAYS OFF PERIOD!!!!. The key is to understand that HAPPINESS can only come right now! I made the mistake of setting many goals to lead to happiness ...i.e women, academics. Once I realised I can be happy right now...life just became a lot easier and better. Make sure to be truly grateful as much as you can not just for material things but also your affirmations that are working, each little step you make forward and the fact that you even came on this amazing journey. Guys ....I am sooooo grateful I found Cory and am on this amazing journey, we are a handful of guys that have the courage, determination and trust to follow his teachings, some guys dont even have the opportunity to know who he even is! Enjoy the journey, be happy now and grateful and more will manifest.
Although Im not exactly where I want to be yet... I am very grateful for my progress so far, Im excited, positive , happy and most importantly I have no doubt in my mind that things are all leading that way. I am "clear" ...I know where Im going, how to get there, what i have to do . Im grateful that I even have the opportunity to post something like this to help out some of you guys.
This is the begginning next time I post something like this its going to be a completely different story:D Credit to spike(student of cory)owner of attractive man formula who helped me breakdown the specifics i.e health, social, fashion etc. and gave me a clearer perspective from a students point of view and off course Cory whose philosophy is the very foundation of everything. But most importantly i give most credit to myself and you should to yourself too, because It take a lot of courage, faith and determination to go on this journey so be proud of yourself so far.
In the end HARD WORK, HAPPINESS, GRATITUDE , DETERMINATION , FAITH thats all you need .
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